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Intimacy

Romance / Attachment
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Hugs
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Kisses on the body (not hickeys)
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Kissing on the lips
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French kissing
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Eskimo kiss (nose-to-nose)
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Lying cuddled together (spooning)
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Calling by name instead of nicknames / pet names
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Affectionate nicknames (bunny, kitty, etc.)
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Sleeping together
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Shared shower / bath
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Feeding each other
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Holding hands
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Eye contact during sex
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Whispering in the ear
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Dirty talk
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Love confessions during sex
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Aftercare
Caring for a partner after an intense session (especially after BDSM) ? cuddles, water, a blanket, conversation.
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Pillow talk
Talking in bed after sex.
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Slow / sensual sex (vanilla)
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Morning sex while sleepy
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Sex before sleep
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Clothing

Sex while clothed
Own
Partner's
Partially undressed
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Partner's
Lingerie (lace, silk)
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Partner's
Pantyhose
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Partner's
Stockings
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Partner's
Garters / garter belt
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Partner's
Heels / stilettos
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Partner's
Boots (knee-high, thigh-high)
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Partner's
Leather
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Partner's
Latex / rubber
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Partner's
Vinyl / PVC
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Partner's
Silk / satin
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Partner's
Fur
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Partner's
Denim / jeans
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Partner's
Uniforms (nurse, police officer, soldier, flight attendant)
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Partner's
School / student uniform
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Partner's
Maid / butler outfit
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Partner's
Cosplay
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Partner's
Cross-dressing
Dressing in clothing associated with another gender.
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Sissy clothing
Deliberately feminine clothing on a man in the context of humiliation / domination.
Own
Partner's
Formal clothing (classic suit, tuxedo, evening gown)
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Partner's
Wedding dress
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Partner's
Sportswear / leggings / yoga pants
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Partner's
Swimsuit / bikini
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Partner's
Animal costumes (furry, kigurumi)
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Partner's
Corset
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Partner's
Bodysuit / catsuit
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Partner's
Masks (Venetian, latex, gas masks)
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Partner's
Collar as an accessory (in public, day collar)
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Partner's
Complete nudity (nudism)
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Partner's
Stripper outfits
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Partner's
Torn / ripped clothing
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Partners and configurations

Monogamy
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MFM (man-woman-man)
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FMF (woman-man-woman)
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MMF / FFM
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Orgy (4+ participants)
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Swinging
Partner swapping between couples.
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Cuckolding
A husband watches another man have sex with his wife.
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Cuckqueaning
The same idea, but a woman watches her husband.
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Hotwife
A wife sleeps with others with her husband's approval.
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Stag/Vixen
A husband takes pride in his wife's sexuality and encourages her adventures.
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Polyamory
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Open relationships
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Compersion
Joy from seeing your partner happy with someone else.
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Bull
A man invited to have sex with another man's wife.
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Gangbang
One person with several partners at the same time.
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Bukkake
Several men ejaculating on one partner.
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Public sex (risk of being seen)
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Dogging
Sex in public places with spectators, often in parking lots.
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Voyeurism (watching)
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Exhibitionism (showing)
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Oral and manual

Handjob
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Blowjob
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Deep throating
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Gagging
Gag reflex from deep oral sex (for those who enjoy it).
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Sloppy blowjob
Messy, wet blowjob with saliva and sounds.
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Swallowing semen
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Facials
Ejaculating on a partner's face.
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Cum play
Playing with semen ? spreading it around, sharing it with a kiss, etc.
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Snowballing
Passing semen from mouth to mouth.
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Creampie
Ejaculating inside and watching it leak out.
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Felching
Sucking semen out of a partner after a creampie.
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Cunnilingus
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Face-sitting
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Queening / Smothering
Similar, but with the face fully covered.
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69
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Edging
Bringing someone close to orgasm and stopping.
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Orgasm denial
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Ruined orgasm
Stimulation stops right as orgasm begins.
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Teasing
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Stripping / slow undressing
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Tearing clothes
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Mutual masturbation
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Solo masturbation in front of a partner
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Self-humiliation
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Frotting
Rubbing genitals together.
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Tribadism / scissoring
Vulva-to-vulva rubbing.
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Titjob / paizuri
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Footjob
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Armpit job
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Thigh job
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CBT from a partner
Cock and ball torture ? see ?Pain.?
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Penetration

Vaginal penetration
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Anal penetration
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Oral penetration
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Strap-on
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Double-ended dildo
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Barebacking (without a condom)
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Protected sex (with a condom)
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Tantric / Yoni stimulation
Slow tantric practices, working with ?lingam? and ?yoni? ? a spiritual-sexual approach.
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Fingering
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Object insertion
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Vaginal fisting
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Anal fisting
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Double penetration (DP)
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Double vaginal / double anal
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Triple penetration
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Size difference (big/small)
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Cervix penetration
Deep penetration touching the cervix.
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Pussy pumping / cock pumping
Vacuum pumps.
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Positions

Missionary
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Cowgirl / reverse cowgirl
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Doggy style
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Spooning (side position)
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Standing
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Pinned against a wall
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On a table / washing machine
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Piledriver
Partner lies on their shoulders with legs over their head.
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Wheelbarrow
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On the knees
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Hanging off the bed (head down)
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Love swing / sex swing
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Suspension (ropes, chains) / rope suspension
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69 (lying, sitting, standing)
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Unseen actor
A partner does not see who they are with, or the action happens ?unseen.?
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Stealth penetration
Penetration that happens unnoticed / while a partner is distracted (within an agreed roleplay scenario).
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Glory hole
A hole in a wall for anonymous oral or other sex.
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Anal

Anal teasing (with a finger)
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Anal toys / plugs
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Wearing a plug under clothes
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Training plugs (different sizes)
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Anal sex
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Pegging
A woman using a strap-on on a man anally.
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Rimming / analingus
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Double penetration
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Anal fisting
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Anal prolapse play
Playing with prolapsed tissue ? a hardcore topic.
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Anal beads
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Inflatable anal toys
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Gape
A stretched opening as a fetish on its own.
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Anal enemas before sex
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Figging
Inserting peeled ginger root into the anus for a burning sensation.
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Restraints and bondage

Gag
Self
Partner
Collar
Self
Partner
Leash
Self
Partner
Rope bondage (shibari / kinbaku)
Self
Partner
Decorative shibari (without sex)
Self
Partner
Suspension
Self
Partner
Forceful pinning (to a wall, table, bed)
Self
Partner
Choking with hands
Self
Partner
Choking with rope / cord
Self
Partner
Breath control (breath play)
Self
Partner
Restraint furniture (X-cross, sawhorses, spanking bench)
Self
Partner
Human cage
Self
Partner
Bed with rings / hooks
Self
Partner
Chastity items (belt, cock cage)
Self
Partner
Total immobilization
Self
Partner
Mummification (tape, plastic wrap, sleeping bag)
Self
Partner
Vacuum bed / vacuum bag
Self
Partner
Sight deprivation (blindfold, hood)
Self
Partner
Hearing deprivation (earplugs, headphones)
Self
Partner
Sensory deprivation (all at once)
Self
Partner
Sensory overload (the opposite)
Self
Partner
Hogtie
Tying wrists to ankles behind the back.
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Breast bondage
Self
Partner
Genital bondage
Self
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Spreader bar
Self
Partner
One-limb suspension / inversion
Self
Partner

Toys

Dildos (regular)
On self
On others
Realistic / unrealistic dildos (fantasy: dragons, etc.)
On self
On others
Suction-cup dildos
On self
On others
Strap-on dildos
On self
On others
Anal plugs (metal, silicone, glass)
On self
On others
Tail plugs
On self
On others
Anal beads
On self
On others
Vibrator (bullet, classic)
On self
On others
Clitoral vibrator (air pulse, e.g. Womanizer)
On self
On others
Rabbit vibrator
On self
On others
G-spot vibrator
On self
On others
Sybian
A large saddle-style sex machine you ride; powerful vibration and attachments.
On self
On others
Bad Dragon / fantasy toys
On self
On others
Fucking machine
On self
On others
Vibrating egg (with remote)
On self
On others
Remote-control vibrator (also Bluetooth / phone-controlled)
On self
On others
App-controlled toys (Lovense, We-Vibe)
On self
On others
Masturbator / Fleshlight
On self
On others
Onahole
On self
On others
Vacuum pump (penis / pussy pump)
On self
On others
Cock ring
On self
On others
Prostate massager
A toy for prostate stimulation.
On self
On others
Ben Wa / kegel balls
On self
On others
Tenga / Japanese masturbators
On self
On others
Bondage ropes (jute, cotton, nylon)
On self
On others
Tape / bondage tape (does not stick to hair)
On self
On others
Handcuffs (metal, leather, fur-lined)
On self
On others
Leather cuffs / straps
On self
On others
Chastity belt / cage
On self
On others
Blindfold
On self
On others
Hood
On self
On others
Ball gag
On self
On others
Ring gag / O-ring
On self
On others
Penis gag
On self
On others
Improvised gag (panties, sock, tie)
On self
On others
Inflatable gag
On self
On others
Bit gag
On self
On others
Mouth spreader
On self
On others
Urethral sounds / rods (sounding)
On self
On others
Leash
On self
On others
Collar (posture, day, training)
On self
On others
Nipple clamps (with chain, with weights)
On self
On others
Labia / scrotum clamps
On self
On others
Anal hooks
On self
On others
Flogger
On self
On others
Whip
On self
On others
Crop / riding crop
On self
On others
Paddle
On self
On others
Cane
On self
On others
Wooden spanking paddle
On self
On others
Hairbrush (as a spanking tool)
On self
On others
Wartenberg pinwheel
A rolling wheel with sharp pins.
On self
On others
Electro toys (violet wand, TENS devices, e-stim)
On self
On others
BDSM wax (low-temperature)
On self
On others
Feather / tickler brush
On self
On others
Ice
On self
On others
Massage oil / lubricant (silicone, water-based, hybrid)
On self
On others
Numbing lube (desensitizing ? use with caution)
On self
On others
Stimulating lube (warming / cooling)
On self
On others

Dominance and control

Dominant / Submissive (Dom/sub)
As dominant
As submissive
Master / slave (M/s)
As dominant
As submissive
Owner / pet
As dominant
As submissive
House service
As dominant
As submissive
Slavery (24/7 or session-based)
As dominant
As submissive
DD/lg, DD/lb, MD/lg, MD/lb
Daddy Dom / little girl and related variants ? an ?older-younger? role dynamic.
As dominant
As submissive
CG/l
Caregiver / little ? a more gender-neutral variation.
As dominant
As submissive
Age play
Roleplay with age-based roles (always between consenting adults).
As dominant
As submissive
Discipline
As dominant
As submissive
Protocol / behavior rules
As dominant
As submissive
Dom/sub contract
As dominant
As submissive
Begging (for permission / mercy)
As dominant
As submissive
Forced orgasm
As dominant
As submissive
Orgasm control
As dominant
As submissive
Orgasm denial
As dominant
As submissive
Chastity
As dominant
As submissive
Key holder
The partner who keeps the key to the cage / belt.
As dominant
As submissive
Financial domination (findom)
A submissive gives money to a dominant.
As dominant
As submissive
Brat taming
Handling and taming a bratty submissive.
As dominant
As submissive
Funishment
Playful ?punishment? for mutual enjoyment.
As dominant
As submissive
Real punishment
Genuine disciplinary punishment.
As dominant
As submissive
Ownership / branding (symbolic marking)
As dominant
As submissive
Rituals (morning, bedtime, before a session)
As dominant
As submissive
Positions on command (kneeling, presenting)
As dominant
As submissive
Training
As dominant
As submissive
Degradation
Verbal humiliation (dirty words, insults).
As dominant
As submissive
Praise kink
Enjoying being praised.
As dominant
As submissive
Mind control / hypnosis
Erotic hypnosis (real or roleplayed).
As dominant
As submissive
Brainwashing roleplay
As dominant
As submissive

Scenarios and roleplay

Humiliation (verbal, physical)
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Pet play (soft ? ears, tail, cuteness)
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Pet play (hard ? serious training, living like a pet)
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Puppy / kitten / pony / bunny play
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Human furniture (chair, table, ashtray)
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Slave training
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Interrogation
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Interrogation with torture (CNC)
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Group sex scenario
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Consensual kidnapping
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Sex with a sleeping partner (sleep play)
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Forced sex / rape fantasy (CNC ? consensual non-consent)
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Ravishment / roleplayed ?rape?
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Teacher / student
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Boss / subordinate
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Doctor / patient
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Priest / parishioner
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Police officer / criminal
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Jailer / prisoner
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Strangers in a bar
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Cheating scenario (roleplay)
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Stranger roleplay
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Breeding kink
A fantasy about conception / ?being bred.?
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Impregnation / pregnancy play
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Lactation
Breastfeeding a partner.
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Virginity play
Roleplaying a ?first time.?
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Monster / creature roleplay
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Alien / tentacle roleplay
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Vampire / werewolf
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Incest roleplay (step-family, CNC fantasy)
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Bimbofication
Roleplay transformation into a ?bimbo.?
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Hypno / transformation fantasy
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Free use
?Use me anytime? ? a partner is available at any moment.
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Somnophilia
A fetish centered around a partner sleeping.
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Touch and stimulation

Petting / making out
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Massage (regular, erotic, nuru)
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Cock / Pussy worship
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Ass worship
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Foot worship
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Whole-body worship
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Tickling (light)
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Tickle torture (with restraint)
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Electro-stimulation (e-stim, TENS, violet wand)
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Breath play
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Temperature play (ice, wax, hot drinks)
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Sensation play
Working with different sensations (feather, fur, metal, silk).
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Knife play
Knife play, usually without cutting ? visual / tactile.
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Needle play
Needles (medical BDSM).
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Medical fetish (gynecological exam, etc.)
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Financial / tribute rituals
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Pain

Light pain
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Medium pain
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Heavy pain / heavy play
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Hickeys
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Nipple clamps
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Clamps with weights / tension
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Spanking on the body (with a hand)
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Face slapping
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Spitting in the face / mouth
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Hand spanking
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Impact with tools (paddling, caning, flogging, whipping)
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Cock / Pussy slapping
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CBT
Cock and ball torture ? various forms of pain involving the penis and testicles.
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Ball busting
Strikes to the testicles.
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Pussy torture
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Breast torture (clamps, strikes, bondage)
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Nipple torture
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Hot wax
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Ice / cold as pain
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Biting (light, hard)
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Play piercing
Temporary piercing with needles.
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Fire play
Using brief flames on the skin (only for experienced people).
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Cutting / blood play
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Branding
Marking with heated metal.
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Scarring
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Urethral sounding
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Marks (hickeys, bites, marker, bruises) as a separate fetish
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Marks / bruises as trophies
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Aftercare after pain (mandatory!)
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Fluids and physiology

Semen (on the body, inside, in the mouth)
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Squirting
Female ejaculation.
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Saliva / spitting
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Sweat
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Tears (from emotion, pain, or gag reflex)
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Watersports / golden shower
Urine play.
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Omorashi
A Japanese fetish around holding urine / wetting clothes.
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Scat play
Feces (extreme, with serious risks).
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Menstrual blood / period play
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Blood play (see ?Pain?)
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Lactation / milk
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Enema as play
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Slime / wet and messy (WAM)
Playing with food, cream, jelly, or slime on the body.
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Food play (chocolate, whipped cream, honey)
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Sploshing
Covering someone in messy substances as a fetish.
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Settings and places

Bedroom (classic)
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Shower / bath / jacuzzi
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Kitchen
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Floor / carpet
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Car
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Outdoors (forest, beach, tent)
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Pool
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Hotel
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Office / workplace
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Fitting room
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Public restroom
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Elevator
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Airplane (mile-high club)
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Sex club / swing club
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Dungeon
A specially equipped BDSM play space.
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Underwater
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In front of a mirror
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In front of a camera
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Media and technology

Sexting
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Sending nudes
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Video sex / video call
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Recording sex (photo, video)
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Watching your own video together
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Publishing content (amateur porn)
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Anonymous content
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VR porn / VR sessions
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Teledildonics
Toys synchronized over the internet.
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Watching porn together
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Reading erotica aloud / audio porn
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ASMR / audio erotica
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Roleplay by text chat
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Cam sessions with third parties
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Long-distance Sub / Dom (LDR D/s)
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Fetishes and specifics

Feet / soles / toes
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Hands / fingers
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Hair / hair pulling
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Neck
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Belly / navel
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Breasts / nipples
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Ass
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Armpits
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Pregnancy / pregnancy kink
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Body hair / smooth body
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Shaving a partner (as a ritual)
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Tattoos / piercings
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Genital piercing
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Big / small (size difference)
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Muscle worship
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BBW / BHM / chubby
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Mature / age gap (adults only)
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Gingers / brunettes / blondes
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Glasses
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Specific professional attire
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Sock fetish / stocking fetish
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Shoe fetish
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Glove fetish (leather, latex, medical)
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Smoking fetish
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A partner's scent (worn underwear, sweat)
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Goth / alt look
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Makeup (running makeup from saliva and tears ? ?ruined makeup?)
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Red lipstick / lipstick marks
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Psychology and emotions

Subspace
An altered state experienced by a submissive during an intense session.
Common
Domspace
A similar altered state for a dominant.
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Sub drop / Dom drop
An emotional crash after a session ? important to understand.
Common
Catharsis / tears as release
Common
Vulnerability as a kink
Common
Trust play
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Shame / humiliation kink
Common
Guilt play / virtue kink
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Worship / idolization
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Power exchange (TPE ? total power exchange)
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Consensual non-consent (CNC) as a psychological kink
Common
Fear play
Intentionally inducing fear within safe agreed limits.
Common
Edgeplay
Practices on the edge ? psychologically or physically.
Common

Safety and practices

Safeword ? verbal
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Safe signal (nonverbal, if gagged)
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Traffic light system (green / yellow / red)
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RACK
Risk-Aware Consensual Kink ? a conscious approach to risk.
Common
SSC
Safe, Sane, Consensual.
Common
Negotiation / discussion before a session
Common
Kink checklist (like this one)
Common
Hard limits / soft limits
Common
Aftercare plan
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Check-in during a session
Common
STI testing / barrier protection
Common
Contraception
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Fluid bonding
An agreement to stop using condoms within a couple after testing.
Common